does it make you happier? does it make you enjoy life more? does it help you to develop into the person you want to be?
i know from experience that caring about what other's think accomplishes nothing.
nothing. zero. zilch. nada. none
i guess you could say i am kind of an expert on caring about what other's think. i think about it a lot. it's why i don't wear my harry potter shirts to school. it's why when people ask for the music i like i don't say BTS. it's why i procrastinate writing on this blog.
i am afraid of what people will think if i like or do something contrary to the "rules".
and to be honest i am kinda tired of it.
i am tired of worrying over what people think. it's pretty exhausting being constantly worried about other's thoughts. because the thing is, i can't control anyone's thoughts but mine. and honestly people are too busy thinking their own thoughts to be thinking negatively about me.
i can choose if i want to be worried all the time OR i can choose to not care.
this year i am releasing my self from the worry of what other people are thinking about me. i am not going to worry about if i everything i say and do is perfect. this year is going to be about freeing myself from the expectations others may or may not have on me. i don't want to feel the pressure of trying to be perfect. news flash: i and all other humans aren't perfect. "to err is human" - alexander pope
my word for 2019 is FREE.
my word for 2019 is FREE.